Millions of men get into a relationship every year thinking that it will be their last, but somewhere down the road, everything falls apart.
There are hundreds of mistakes a man may make that can lead to the end of a relationship. Among those, three mistakes are extremely common.
What are those three mistakes and how can you avoid them? Let us find out.
Showing incongruent behavior
Over the years, you must have seen your friends and acquaintances acting too sweet, and somewhat different, toward their partners after they have sex for the first time. You do not want to act that way. You want to act like the same person before having sex and after having sex with your girl. When a girl decides to sleep with you, she does so because your personality attracts her. So if you suddenly change your personality or behavior after getting intimate, your girl will get confused as to whether she made the right decision or not. If you no longer seem to be the person she decided to sleep with in the first place, she may start searching for a way out.
Setting sky high expectations
When your emotions are uncontrollable, it is hard to logically think. Due to having butterflies in the stomach, you may want to do amazing things for your girl during the first few months of your relationship. That is normal, nothing wrong with that. However, avoid doing too many amazing things within too little a time span.
If during the first three or four months of your relationship you take your girlfriend to amazing restaurants, adventures, movies etc., and then, after a year or two passes, you no longer feel the same passion to do those things for her, she will start to feel like the relationship is dying.
So learn to keep the expectations low from the start. Only do things for her that you can maintain long term.
Not giving a girl much space
The moment you get into a relationship with a girl, you make a secret vow to share your life with her. That is good. However, sharing your life does not mean that you must text her for hours every day, or that you should spend every little free time you get with her. If you devote too much time and energy to her, the whole thing will start to get boring pretty fast. Even worse, she may start to feel trapped!