3 Tips that Will Help You Find Your True Love
They say that you cannot find true love, it finds you. Maybe, that’s true. But how do you know whether your love is true or not?
Here are three tips that may help you:
Look for the spark
We do not know what it is exactly, but we all have felt it at some point in our lives – the electric energy on seeing someone for the first time. It may sound a bit too corny, but you should look for that initial spark if you are in search of true love. Most happy couples report that the spark was definitely present when they met each other for the first time. The universe works in mysterious ways – it has much more to it than we can comprehend with our senses, and the feeling of electricity in the air is one of the many unsolved mysteries of the universe. It is a mystery yes, but at the same time, it is very real. If you do not feel that spark with someone, maybe you should start looking somewhere else.
Ask yourself if the person makes you happy
Happiness is not receiving gifts from your partner or going to expensive vacations together. It is a feeling that you should be able to feel inside, and say ‘That’s it’. Ask yourself honestly ’Does this person make me truly happy?’ If your answer is ‘No’, then you are not with the right person. The best relationships are those where both the persons involved help each other grow. True love does not hold each other back; instead, it encourages each other to be brilliant, to achieve greatness. It is not like you will not face problems, issues and arguments if your love is true; you will. But, in the midst of all that, if you are with the right person, you will be happy in some strange way.
Listen to your gut feeling
What does your gut feeling say? Is it suspicious of the person you like? Do you feel great, but at the same time, feel like something is just not right? That is not good. On the other hand, if everything feels just right and you feel content, then maybe you need to take the leap forward. No relationship will ever come to you with a guarantee card, but at least you should be able to feel that it is the right thing to get into. Remember, you will not feel that way with every person you meet, and that is the beauty and the curse of it.